Thursday, November 6, 2008

Try as you might, sometimes it is about character...


At the start of the text, Charlotte is an angel, the epitome of sweetness. Her parents were very caring and never abused her, unlike the parental figures in some of the earlier texts we have read. Her father, Mr. Temple, and her mother, Lucy Elderage, married for love even though it resulted in the loss of fortune. Her father is an amiable man whose worst quality seems to be that he is too easy going and too charitable. He gives what little money he has out to those who ask for it. Charlotte is treated very affectionately by her parents, and at her death scene her father is present to mourn. Charlotte is like her father in that she is too easily influenced by the wishes of others. This makes hear easy prey for the lusty Montraville, and she listens to keenly to the advice of Mme. LaRue. Charlotte’s fall is not her own fault per se, the only fault of hers was the unlucky tendency to be rather to easy going. This malleable nature makes her the prey of those who want to profit off her, and therefore it is these manipulative wills who are responsible. The parents and Charlotte are just too weak to fight off those who are more cunning, and this is not their fault.

The only way that Charlotte Temple’s fall could have been prevented would be by changing either her nature or that of her parents to be more cunning and strong-willed. If they were keener to the ways of the world they would not take the predator’s advice. A little street smarts and stubbornness could have done Charlotte a world of good. And even if she lacked it, a strong assertive parent who kept watch over her may have done the trick. All of the trouble seems to start when she is away at boarding school. If she had been educated closer to home and under someone’s watchful eye, perhaps the tragic events may not have occurred. The father is shocked to find out his daughter’s elopement, but he ought to have kept closer watch on her.

Modern parents often find themselves too easily manipulated by their children or too into their own interests to be adequate parents. These weaknesses of will or the abundance of selfishness lead many children to unhappy ends. For example, a parent may want to keep their child happy by giving into all the child’s demands and wishes- even those that are not good for them. In order to appease a headstrong child they might let the child run the show- watching adult materials, going out late, setting their own rules. It is not that the parent does not care about their child- they just have a nature that allows them to be trampled on my stronger parties. On the other hand, the parent may be busy with their own lives and not watch the child carefully enough. The parent may want to go on their own date night or be absorbed in word- letting the child fall prey to bad influences. In both cases, the fault may not be with the parent not caring for the child. The issue is with parental authority and control. The modern parent must find a healthy balance between nurturing their child’s individuality, letting them grow, and deciding what is best for the child. The best way to keep the child safe is to be a model of consistency- always have a watchful eye over the child, make sure expectations are known and exercise authority in the household. If this is done, there is a good chance the child will avoid horrible pitfalls. However, like Charlotte, some children have an easily malleable nature that makes them prey to stronger characters. If this is the case, all the care in the world may not protect them.

2 comments:

Emily C. said...

Hi Megan,

I enjoyed reading your post. Yes: It does seem that the Temple family as a whole is a bit too "nicey-nice." Though being overly trusting doesn't get Mr. Temple into trouble (specifically when he chooses to pay off Mr. Eldridge's debts, a man he barely knows at all), Charlotte certainly could have avoided some of her mishaps had she been at least a bit more suspicious of others.

Anonymous said...

i think you bring up some great points. it's really crucial to find the happy-medium between caring and educating... i think very few parents actually succeed with this. it becomes a matter of the child trying to figure out things on his or her own. Charlotte was raised with two loving parents and is far too trusting, and this is her demise. you're completely right in stating that the Temples are too "nice," and it's completely applicable to modern-day families. great post!